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Co-Parent Communication & Decision-Making Guidelines

$30.00

Co-parenting with someone who thrives on conflict can feel like the wild west—no rules, no clarity, and every message feels like a new ambush. It’s exhausting to constantly defend yourself, chase down answers, or try to negotiate with a parent who refuses to cooperate. And when the communication breaks down, your child is the one who ends up paying the price.

This is exactly why I created the Co-Parent Communication & Decision-Making Guidelines, the same structured, court-informed system I teach my private coaching clients. These protocols bring order to chaos. They replace reactive messaging with a step-by-step process that protects your time, your sanity, and most importantly, your child’s well-being.

This is a must-have tool for any parent navigating the storm of co-parenting with someone who is inconsistent, manipulative, combative, or chronically unresponsive. Instead of being pulled into their dysfunction, these protocols give you a framework that keeps you grounded, organized, and aligned with the expectations of family-court professionals.

You can start using it immediately, and you can share it with your court-appointed parent coordinator, decision-maker, mediator, or co-parenting coach to streamline communication and reduce conflict across the board. This is the roadmap you wish you had on day one.

Co-parenting with someone who thrives on conflict can feel like the wild west—no rules, no clarity, and every message feels like a new ambush. It’s exhausting to constantly defend yourself, chase down answers, or try to negotiate with a parent who refuses to cooperate. And when the communication breaks down, your child is the one who ends up paying the price.

This is exactly why I created the Co-Parent Communication & Decision-Making Guidelines, the same structured, court-informed system I teach my private coaching clients. These protocols bring order to chaos. They replace reactive messaging with a step-by-step process that protects your time, your sanity, and most importantly, your child’s well-being.

This is a must-have tool for any parent navigating the storm of co-parenting with someone who is inconsistent, manipulative, combative, or chronically unresponsive. Instead of being pulled into their dysfunction, these protocols give you a framework that keeps you grounded, organized, and aligned with the expectations of family-court professionals.

You can start using it immediately, and you can share it with your court-appointed parent coordinator, decision-maker, mediator, or co-parenting coach to streamline communication and reduce conflict across the board. This is the roadmap you wish you had on day one.

What you’ll get…

✔ A Proven, Court-Aligned Communication Framework
A step-by-step system for creating concise, direct, child-focused communication that aligns with how judges, parenting coordinators, and evaluators expect you to communicate. No more guesswork. No more spiraling paragraphs. Just clarity and structure.

✔ Message Designations That Eliminate Confusion

Learn how to use RR, RP, FYI, and the full proposal-response sequence, so no message gets lost, ignored, or twisted. Each communication has a clear purpose and a clear expected response - including deadlines!

✔ A Court-Approved Decision-Making Schedule

Transform major-child decision discussions from chaos into a predictable, timed process with deadlines, required responses, and clear next steps—designed specifically to reduce circular arguments.

✔ Tone & Professionalism Guidelines That Protect You

Learn how to write messages that hold up under the scrutiny of a judge or parenting evaluator—firm, respectful, neutral, and impossible to weaponize. These guidelines keep your “side of the street clean” at all times.

✔ Strategies to Shut Down High-Conflict Tactics

When the other parent is vague, attacking, dismissive, or confusing, you’ll have a scripted and court-sanctioned response style that stops the cycle and keeps you out of the emotional mud.

✔ A Built-In Process for Declaring Impasse Without Drama

Know exactly when and how to end unproductive conversations—and how to professionally escalate to your PC, arbiter, or mediator when needed. No more long, looping message threads.

✔ Guidance for Using Co-Parenting Apps Correctly

Avoid the pitfalls that so many parents fall into with TalkingParents, OurFamilyWizard, AppClose, and similar platforms. Structure your categories, avoid mixed-topic messages, and follow best-practice communication patterns.

✔ A Tool You Can Share With Your Court-Appointed Professionals

This document is authorized for use with your co-parent and your court-appointed professionals—making it easier for everyone to stay on the same page and reduce unnecessary conflict.

✔ Immediate Relief and Long-Term Strategy

You’ll feel the difference the very first time you use these protocols. Over time, they become a powerful record of your consistency, clarity, and child-focused approach—something every family-court professional takes seriously.