January is unofficial National Divorce Month. Steady Support Begins Here.

January is often unofficially referred to as ‘National Divorce Month.' Many parents stay through the holidays so their children can have one more magical holiday season before they break the news of divorce to their children. Then January arrives, and you decide that it’s time, you’ve had enough, and you and your children deserve better.

I remember reading the book, Untamed, by Glennon Doyle and this one paragraph shifted my entire outlook on my life. When I felt like I was standing at the precipice of an impossible decision – stay to provide an in-tact family, or leave to escape the abuse – these words felt like a compass that helped me move from feeling lost, to moving with purpose.

“What a terrible burden for children to bear—to know that they are the reason their mother stopped living. What a terrible burden for our daughters to bear—to know that if they choose to become mothers, this will be their fate, too. Because if we show them that being a martyr is the highest form of love, that is what they will become. They will feel obligated to love as well as their mothers loved, after all. They will believe they have permission to live only as fully as their mothers allowed themselves to live.”

― Glennon Doyle, Untamed

This applies not to just to mothers, but any protective parent grappling with the difficult choice of staying, or leaving. If that is you, I want you to hear this clearly:

You did not fail.
You tried.
You did not ask for this, this is not your fault.
Choosing to end an unhealthy marriage is an act of self‑care, an act of love for your children, and an incredibly brave choice.

To support you as you begin this chapter with intention and strategy, I am offering the opportunity for support at a lower rate, because as a survivor of domestic abuse (non-physical intimate partner violence / coercive control) this work is deeply personal to me, and I want to provide an opportunity to proactively and intentionally support protective parents at a more affordable rate - because every protective parent deserves this kind of strategy and support.

For the month of January only:
• 10% off my 3‑month, 6‑month, and 12‑month coaching packages with coupon code NATLDIVMO2026-10OFF
• $500 off the Rise and Release Divorce Retreat - Click here to learn more about the retreat

This work is focused on long‑term peace protection for you and your children, trauma‑informed, child‑centered, and grounded in nervous system care. You are not alone 💚

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